April 22, 2005
FORGIVENESS: A DECISION, NOT A FEELING
I know...it's
been 10 days since my last posting. Life has been
really, really hectic the past couple of
weeks...out-of-town professional training, online class,
new multimedia projector at church that I am having lots
of fun learning, plus the daily responsibilities of
family life--you get the picture. But then, your life is
probably like that, too. I've been reading my Bible, but
having time to actually post something here--well, it's
eluded me.
What's on my
mind most recently is a topic on which I will be sharing
at a retreat this weekend: Forgiveness.
There are two
parts to forgiveness: extending forgiveness and
receiving forgiveness. This is an integral part of
Christian life, the most basic tenet of our faith.
Extending forgiveness.
I'm of the
opinion that the Bible speaks most clearly for itself.
So read these scriptures and see what you come up with:
Matthew 6:12-15;
Matthew 18:21-35;
Luke 6:37;
Mark 11:25-26;
Ephesians 4:32;
Colossians 3:13;
Proverbs 17:9;
Proverbs 19:11;
Proverbs 20:22;
Proverbs 21:21;
I Corinthians 13:4-8;
1 John 4:7-12, 19-21.
Bottom line: if
you want to be forgiven, you must forgive. MUST. It's a
command. Our Father IS love, and we are His children, so
walking in love/forgiveness should be our major
characteristic.
Easy? Not
hardly! Possible? Most definitely!
Romans 5:5 says the love of God has been poured
out in our hearts. We have HIS love in our hearts. and
Philippians 4:13 says, "I can do ALL things
through Christ who strengthen me!" (emphasis mine)
1 John 5:3-4 says that God's commands are not
burdensome or grievous. In other words, it's not
something too difficult to do.
Receiving forgiveness.
Maybe the
problem is not what someone else has done to you, but
what you've done to someone else. Now you feel bad about
it. You've repented, but find it difficult to forget or
forgive yourself. Look, if God forgives you, who are you
to say otherwise?
First, we must
realize we have sinned. Then we must confess the sin.
Failure to confess sin or failure to release those
who've sinned against us affects all areas of our lives,
leading to disease and infirmity.
I read an
article about forgiveness by Rick Warren in this month's
(May, 2004) issue of Ladies' Home Journal. He
said,
“When you hold on to your anger and resentment, it
perpetuates the pain long after the offense. Resentment
hurts you more than anyone else. You’re unable to get on
with your life because you keep reviewing what happened
in your mind. For this reason, learning to forgive is
absolutely essential to healthy living. It’s the only
way to find freedom from past hurts.”
An article in the September 27, 2004 issue of
Newsweek was titled: “Forgive and Let Live: Revenge
is sweet, but letting go of anger at those who wronged
you is a smart route to good health.”
Remember, forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling.
Ron Luce in his book Quit Playing With Fire
said, “It may take weeks or months before you feel
any different about the person who hurt you. Don’t
be discouraged. God’s Word has the power to heal your
broken heart. It never fails!”
Kenneth Copeland said, “Forgiveness is one of the
most powerful forces in existence. To walk in
forgiveness is to walk in victory! For me not to forgive
would be to dishonor the blood of Jesus. God honored
that blood and forgave me in the face of my sin, so even
as He has forgiven me, I forgive others.”
Remember there is nothing you have done that is too
big for the blood of Jesus. Honor that blood--receive
forgiveness! Honor that blood--extend forgiveness.
We really have no choice.
April 12, 2005
SIGNS FOLLOW BELIEVERS
Well,
I'm back in the book of Acts. I had gone over to Psalms
for a little bit--I find such encouragement there. But I
need more than that. I need instruction, correction, and
reproof so that I may be thoroughly equipped for every
good work (2
Timothy 3:16-17).
So
anyway, I notice in
Acts 8 that after the stoning of Stephen, great
persecution of the church began and they were "scattered
abroad." I also notice that they preached the word
wherever they went.
Here's
what stands out to me today from this chapter is verses
6-8:
6When the crowds heard
Philip and saw the miraculous signs he did, they all
paid close attention to what
he said.
7With shrieks, evil spirits
came out of many, and many paralytics and cripples were
healed. 8So there was great
joy in that city.
I think of this
frequently. Jesus left His disciples (which includes us)
with what we have so eloquently termed "The Great
Commission." People who don't think proclaiming the
Gospel includes speaking in tongues and laying hands on
the sick and seeing them healed use
Matthew's account:
18Then Jesus came to them
and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been
given to me. 19Therefore go
and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the
name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy
Spirit, 20and teaching them
to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am
with you always, to the very end of the age.”
Others use
Mark's account:
15He said to them, “Go into
all the world and preach the good news to all creation.
16Whoever believes and is
baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe
will be condemned. 17And
these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name
they will drive out demons; they will speak in new
tongues; 18they will pick
up snakes with their hands; and when they drink deadly
poison, it will not hurt them at all; they will place
their hands on sick people, and they will get well.”
What's
neat about Mark's account is that after Jesus ascended,
they went out and preached everywhere, and the Lord
confirmed the word with accompanying signs.
Jesus Himself
said we would do the things He did, and
greater. He also told us in
Acts 1 that we would receive power after the
Holy Ghost comes upon us and we would be His witnesses.
He himself did not miracles until after He was baptized
by John and the Holy Spirit "descended" upon Him "like a
dove."
So what is my
point? We are to preach the gospel. That is, we are to
tell others about the saving power of Jesus. A good tool
to get people's attention is miraculous signs.
Perhaps it is
best said by a popular Christian song sung by
Casting Crowns (lyrics by Mark Hall):
"But if
we are the body
Why aren't His arms reaching?
Why aren't His hands healing?
Why aren't His words teaching?
And if we are the body
Why aren't His feet going?
Why is His love not showing them there is a way?
There is a way."
April 6, 2005
I WILL
I
listen to what the Spirit of the Lord is saying through
His Word, through the mouth of His prophets, and through
His Spirit in me—for they all agree, you see. (What is
spoken through the prophets and on the inside of me must
agree with God’s Word.) Let me share what is daily on my
mind.
In
February, 2003, Rev. Kenneth E. Hagin spoke a word of
the Lord by the Holy Spirit—a prophecy. (He has since
joined the Lord in Heaven, having lived a long, fruitful
life.) He talked about the years 2003-2006. You can view
the full prophecy
here, on Kenneth Copeland’s web site. But notice
particularly what he said about 2005:
“What about 2005? Will time last or will it cease?
2005—oh my! A year of judgment. Judgment. If we judge
ourselves, we'll not be judged. But when we are judged,
we're turned over to Satan for the destruction of the
flesh so that the spirit may be saved in the day of the
Lord Jesus.
There'll be judgment in the individual realm. There'll
be judgment in the family realm. There'll be judgment on
the national level. A day of sternness. A day of
discipline. A day of correction.
But the end of the year will be glorious. Amends shall
be made. Many shall judge themselves. Nations will turn
to God. And it'll end in a glorious manner.”
Likewise, at the end of 2003, Kenneth
Copeland prophesied that 2005 would be a year of
overflow. How much overflow depends on how much you
sow.
These
two prophesies agree. What you sow, you will reap.
Sowing judgment of others while not judging yourself?
You will reap judgment. (Not good.) Sowing judgment of
yourself—that is, walking in love and complete and total
forgiveness? Reap love. Reap overflow of God’s
blessings.
That
reminds me of what God said in
Deuteronomy 30:19: "I set before you this day
life and death, blessings and curses. Therefore, choose
life." The choice is not difficult. Following through,
however, may be VERY difficult. But the only choice for
overflow of blessing is walking in love. After all, that
is the
greatest commandment. If you do that, you are doing
the rest.
I
choose to do it. I choose life and blessing. OVERFLOW of
blessing. It is MY choice, after all. God leaves it up
to me. I must do what it takes to put myself in a
position to receive what He wants to give me. I WILL.
I’m still hanging out in the Psalms—I’ll get back to Acts.
The Psalms soothe me, encourage me, lift me up. Sometimes I
need that, a lot.
What’s so encouraging about the Psalms? Because we see in
the midst of human frailty and disappointments a recognition
of God’s goodness, mercy, love, righteousness, compassion,
and willingness to save and deliver. In the face of who He
is, all else becomes small, and the only right choice we
then have is to praise Him, worship Him, and declare His
goodness.
Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures
forever. He is
GOOD, and His love endures forever. His love is
everlasting. His mercy endures forever. Thank God for His
mercy. Thank God for His love.
I can’t stop there, because that is an important point.
“I WILL.” Sometimes we think we have the right to WAIT until
we WANT to obey God, to WAIT until we FEEL like obeying God.
You can’t wait until you feel like it. You have to do it
because it is the RIGHT thing to do. Obeying God is the
RIGHT thing to do.
I wonder how many times the Psalmist says “I WILL.” I
count about eight times just in
Psalm 118. And as my eyes scan across the page into
the next chapter, I see the phrase sprinkled throughout it
as well. What about all the Psalms? Well, I
looked it up. I count about 168 times. Look for
yourself. (I didn't count the times he said something like,
"I will kill," or the times God said, "I will" do this or
that--only when the psalmist makes a positive declaration,
usually in the face of adversity.)
I WILL obey God. Therein lies my blessing. How can I
close my eyes and lift my hands and voice in praise to my
Heavenly Father, then open them and look at my neighbor with
anything but that same love? I would be a hypocrite.